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I have your letter, my adorable love. It has filled my heart with joy…since I left you I have been sad all the time. My only happiness is near you. I go over endlessly in my thought your kisses, your tears, your delicious jealousy. The charm of my wonderful Josephine kindles a living, blazing fire in my heart and senses.
When shall I be able to pass every minute near you, with nothing to do but to love you and nothing to think of but the pleasure of telling you of it and giving you proof of it? I have loved you some time ago; since then I feel that I love you a thousand times better. Ever since I have known you I adore you more every day. That proves how wrong is that saying of La Bruyere “Love comes all of a sudden.”
Ah, let me see some of your faults; be less beautiful, Less graceful, less tender, less good. But never be jealous and never shed tears. Your tears send me out of my mind they set my very blood on fire. Believe me that it is utterly impossible for me to have a single thought that is not yours, a single fancy that is not submissive to your will. Rest well. Restore your health. Come back to me and then at any rate before we die we ought to be able to say:”We were happy for so very many days!” Millions of kisses even to your dog.
One thing you simply cannot ignore about your relationship is that there is another person in your life. Your partner is someone you have to care for, think about regularly, support and comfort.
If you are not fulfilling these duties, your partner will feel neglected and hurt. Relationships can feel strained when you are neither confident in yourself nor feel personal self-worth.
This is when you might feel overly dependent on a relationship, have low self-esteem and experience anxiety.
So, what can you do when you feel yourself slipping into this pattern of emotional outbursts, self-doubt and dependency? Take time to self-reflect on your own life goals and ambitions.
If tomorrow your partner was out of the equation, would you still feel content in the other areas of your life? If your goal is to look and feel healthier, set aside the time to exercise, meditate and eat well.
If your goal is to switch jobs, start meeting with recruiters and networking. Making strides in your own life will allow you to be more present for someone else.
Feeling emotionally dependent on your partner is comparable to that dreadful feeling of heartbreak when a relationship collapses.
That pressure you experience on your chest feels permanent, you feel confused and overwhelmed. You constantly feel hopeless and alone, even when your partner is in the room.
It is as if nothing anyone says or does is enough. This is because nothing anyone does can give you enough unless you feel love for yourself.
We all live our lives, placing our happiness on diverse objects, sometimes on people, and sometimes on priorities. But the question is, what do we do, when they are all gone? We fail to realize that our happiness is an inward thing, and that it should be created from the inside of us. A lot of us have gone heartbroken on several occasions because our sources of happiness are gone from us. Happiness would never seize from you, when you place it on the ‘self’ factor, and when all you see in the picture is nobody and nothing else but your own self. Someone once asked me, don’t you ever get angry? I smiled and replied; where will the anger come from… The reason being; I’ve permanently succeeded in blocking all the possible chances for anyone or anything to make me feel bad. When you create a inward happiness source, you’re creating an inward security against pain, sorrow, or tears of all sort. Most times, the misplacement of your happiness source can lead to real life issues that might even end up killing you. ‘ve met a lot people who got depressed, who incubated low self-esteem because they misplaced their sources of happiness. To create happiness from your inside, you must learn to always love yourself, give credit to yourself when necessary, before anyone gets to criticizes you, be your number one critic, smile off negativity and always remind yourself that you are your number one happiness.
We’ve all turned to melancholy music to make us feel better at some point in our lives, but why does doubling down on the sadness help drag us out of the mire? A new study sheds light on what’s going on inside our brains when we match our music to our feels, and it looks like sad music can be enjoyable – rather than simply depressing – because it triggers positive memories that can help to lift our mood. Psychologist Adrian North from Curtin University in Australia says there are two groups of possible explanations for why we enjoy listening to sad music like this: one from social psychology, and one from cognitive neuroscience. In terms of social psychology, one way of thinking about this is that we feel better about ourselves if we focus on someone who’s doing even worse, a well-known process known as downward social comparison. Everything’s going to be okay, because this person is having an even worse day than you are. Another hypothesis from social psychology is that people like to listen to music that mirrors the tone of their current life circumstances – the songs act as a sort of tuning fork for our own situations, and they resonate with us.
Several years ago, I was deploying overseas so I decided to leave my black cat Larry with my mother. It was hard. Because I love my cat so much. I couldn’t imagine living without him. But I had to do that. Plus, my mother had been feeling alone lately, and I hoped he would change that. Those days were difficult, because Larry was already like a son to me. I asked mother to share video of Larry online as frequently as possible. After two years, I was ready to get him back. Before I could do that, I got a call from my mother. She said she had fallen asleep earlier and woke up to him on her chest, meowing and pushing her face. He had never done that before. She smelled something funny, jumped out of bed, and found the kitchen on fire. Oh God, my mom is alive because of Larry. He had been protecting us in his way. He really sees us as his family. I guess this is what love is. It doesn’t matter whether you are a human or a cat. You give love and you get love. And I know that Larry loves us, just like we love him. Oh, by the way, he’s my mother’s now. She just couldn’t leave Larry after that. And I’m totally OK with it.
Once upon a time there was an island where all the feelings lived: Happiness, Sadness, Knowledge, and all the others, including Love. One day it was announced to all of the feelings that the island was going to sink to the bottom of the ocean. So all the feelings prepared their boats to leave . Love was the only one that stayed. She wanted to preserve the island paradise until the last possible moment. When the island was almost totally under, love decided it was time to leave. She began looking for someone to ask for help. Just then Richness was passing by in a grand boat. Love asked, “Richness, can I come with you on your boat?” Richness answered, “I’m sorry, but there is a lot of silver and gold on my boat and there would be no room for you anywhere.” Then Love decided to ask Vanity for help who was passing by in a beautiful vessel. Love cried out, “Vanity, help me please!” “I can’t help you,” Vanity said, “You are all wet and will damage my beautiful boat.” Next, Love saw Sadness passing by. Love said, “Sadness, please let me go with you.” Sadness answered, “Love, I’m sorry, but, I just need to be alone now.” Then, Love saw Happiness. Love cried out, “Happiness, please take me with you.” But Happiness was so overjoyed that he didn’t hear Love calling to him. Love began to cry. Then, she heard a voice say, “Come Love, I will take you with me.” It was an elder. Love felt so blessed and overjoyed that she forgot to ask the elder his name. When they arrived on land the elder went on his way. Love realized how much she owed the elder. Love then found Knowledge and asked, “Who was it that helped me?” “It was Time,’ Knowledge answered. “But why did Time help me when no one else would? “Love asked. Knowledge smiled and with deep wisdom and sincerity, answered, “Because only Time is capable of understanding how great Love is.
He is a mute,Although can understand others speech,Cannot say ownactually feeling,She is his neighbor,The girl who is bound by a common destiny with thegrandmother.
He really looks like an elder brother,Leads her to go toschool,Accompanies her to play,Listens to her chirp with a smilegrasps the speech.
He only uses the hand signal and she converses,Possible she tobe able to read his each look. Gazes at in her vision from elderbrother,She knew he has likes oneself.
Afterwards,She finally tests went to college,Extremely happy,Hethen starts to go all out to make money,Then sends continuously forher. She has not rejected.
Finally,She has graduated,Started the work. Then,she said firmlyto him that,“Elder brother,I must marry to you!” He looked likeonly the frightened rabbit to escape, again is not willing to seeher,how regardless of she does entreat.
Do you think i pity you? Do you think i appreciate you? no, ivefallen in love with you since i was 12 .But,She can not obtain hisreply.
One day,She has been admitted to the hospitalsuddenly. He has scared,Runs looks at him. Doctor said,In herthroat steadily a lump,Although has excised,Destroyed the vocalcord actually, Possibly again also could not deliver the speech. Onhospital bed,Her tearful eyes dance gaze he,Therefore theymarried.
Very many years,Nobody listens to them to deliver a speech. Theyuse the hand,With pen,Converses with the look, Shares is joyful andis sad. They became have loved the object which the men and womenenvied. The people said,That pair of how happy mute husbands andwives!
Love could not prevent god of death arrival,He abandoned her towalk first.
The people feared she cannot undergo loses lovers attack tocomfort her.By now, She takes back gazes at his portraitafter-image the dull crazy vision,Opens the mouth to say suddenlythat,“He walked.
I was in college and was sleeping deeply in my dorm room bed after a rough day of classes. Suddenly, I heard the door open and light from the hallway streamed in. My best friend and roommate was standing there unsteadily. His girlfriend had broken up with him earlier that day and he had spent the evening downtown in a bar trying to drown his sorrows with 13 whiskey sours. I got up and helped him to climb up into the bunk bed above me. He didn’t look so good. His face was whiter than normal and he could barely walk. After fending off some idiots on our floor who tried to get him to go back downtown for more drinking I finally got him to lay down. After a minute he said he was going to be sick. I managed to get him to the bathroom down the hall but he couldn’t throw up. I walked him slowly back to bed and got him into the top bunk again. I was just about to drift back off to sleep when I heard it: retching followed by 13 whiskey sours splashing on his sheets. I got him off the bed again, stripped his sheets and helped him back up once more. I was wary of another splash down but soon I heard his gentle snoring. I couldn’t really be mad at him, though. After all, he just wanted what we all wanted: “To be Loved.” Over the decades that followed I started to realize a few things too. I learned that the best way to be loved was to be loving. And I learned that the best way to be loving was to realize that you were already loved. Open your life and let your love out. The greatest gift we can ever get is to be loved and the greatest gift we can ever give is to be loving. And the truth is, they are one and the same.
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